Save or Trash? - Bey Shouldn't Have Remained in her Marriage After Her Husband Cheated.



Yesterday, Jay-Z, husband to the queen Bey herself of the BeyHive, released a new album and the whole world of rap is so excited about it. Not a rap fan but I saw a lot about it on my timeline yesterday. On the album, he was said to have admitted to cheating on Bey, and apologized for doing that. Well, finally we know Beyoncé wasn’t bluffing in her Lemonade album about being cheated on and on that occasion where Solange had gotten quite physical with Jay-Z in the elevator and allegedly accusing him of cheating, he actually deserved those punches he got.
Well, one of our beloved Twelebs (Twitter Celebs) believes Beyonce shouldn’t have remained in a marriage with a cheating husband because staying in the marriage sends the wrong message to young women who look up to her.
Here are his exact words


Hold up! Hold up! Say whaaaat? Mr. Adviser. The Chief Adviser to Beyonce. Awon believers committee. Ejo, abeg when did she hire you as her personal adviser? I didn’t know she needed a whole ‘Nigerian God’s’ advice or rather opinion. A whole Echerates. ‘Pick me’ committee member number one of Twitter.
Excuse you? Who are you to tell a grown ass woman what to do? To think that the guy actually felt he had a say in the matter is actually insulting. This is a guy for Pete’s sake thinking he actually has a say in the matter in a grown woman's own marital life to the point of making a thread about it.
Here are some other cock and bull story in that thread as to why he was of that opinion.






So ladies and gentlemen, Save 👍 or Trash 👎?
For me, It is Trash!! 👎👎👎

Well first of all, empowering women doesn’t mean chickening out when your marriage fails. Most ladies look up to Bey’s marriage, how she’s strong, calm and keeps their affairs under wraps and out of the public eye even with all the crazy celeb business they have going on around them. They are also going to be watching if she comes out like our beloved Tonto or Mercy and starts talking shit about how her husband cheated once and stuff. How are you empowering them by doing such silly stuff? How does she keep that public image that those young women look up to and admire?

Also, just because she chose to stay, doesn’t mean she’s weak. It means she’s strong enough to forgive and get past all that ugliness to make their lives - hers, Jay-Z’s, Blue’s and the twins’ lives - better. I think that should be what women empowerment is supposed to be about. Showing women that no matter what they face they should be able to keep their shit together and hold their head up high - except when their lives are being threatened by violent partners, of course. In that case, run, run for your dear lives.

Lastly, but most important of all, although I am not presently married, I was taught that marriage is a sacred holy union. Also as Christians we are all supposed to know that the Bible gives the offended spouse the right to end it or divorce and ‘leave’ - as this bros has been shouting up and down – only on account of adultery committed by the offending spouse. However, it also states that if the offended party is willing to forgive and remain in the marriage, they are free to do so and once sexual relations have resumed between the couple, they are bound to each other as it was from the beginning.
What God has joined together, let no one – especially not one attention-seeking ‘notice-me’ faceless Twitter guy sitting lonely as hell in his room - put asunder.

Well that’s my own view. So what do you think about this guy’s opinion?
Save or Trash?
Let us know in your comments.
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